Foxhole

Print Friendly and PDF "One of the criminals hanging beside him scoffed, “So you’re the Messiah, are you? Prove it by saving yourself—and us, too, while you’re at it!”

But the other criminal protested. “Don’t you even fear God when you are dying? We deserve to die for our evil deeds, but this man hasn’t done one thing wrong.” Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your Kingdom.”

And Jesus replied, “Today you will be with me in Paradise. This is a solemn promise.”
Luke:23:39-43

In my last post, I realised I was stepping into very dangerous territory by presenting the Bible's view on marriage. I am running in to no man's land like in Lord Tennyson's famous poem...
"Cannon to right of them,
  Cannon to left of them,
  Cannon behind them 
  Volley'd and thunder'd;
  Storm'd at with shot and shell,
  Into the jaws of Death
  Into the mouth of Hell
  Rode the six hundred"

Aside from being regarded as irrelevant in our enlightened modern world, to repeat certain parts of the Bible is in danger of being considered hate speech. We may not face execution as in Pakistan but we can be imprisoned for saying what is written in the Bible.

We either believe the Bible or we don't. If we throw out the unpalatable parts, we distort the message of Jesus which is that he is the only reconciliation between the World and God. We are all identified as sinners by the Bible, not one of us can claim innocence.

The Church today isn't speaking out as it should against all the life choices considered by the Bible to be sin - adultery, fornication, pornography, prostitution, living together without getting married. We are focusing on one or two sins as if they are the only sins God is angry about.

Why don't we? When we were young children, we had no problem with these laws because they didn't affect us. But now we have broken them ourselves, it is much more difficult to accept. We would rather find an alternative explanation for our behaviour that denies all accountability.

Even as believers we may not truly feel sorry for what we have done. It is very easy to accept that in general you are a sinner but it isn't personal enough to get a reaction. People react differently when their sins are named in public. They want to keep things private. It's unlikely to be any different to the way the homosexual community reacts when their lifestyle is named as sin.

Like the two thieves condemned by their sins to execution on the Cross, they will either react with anger or with fear to the judgement placed on them (fight or flight).

I accept that a person can be born gay. I think this affirms the Bible's position that we are all born sinners rather than contradicting it. Everyone can claim that they were born "that way" in excusing their sins. Is it just our genes? That is a cop-out to avoid admitting responsibility.

But it won't fool the Judge! Will the Judge feel sorry for us? Yes he is compassionate. Does that mean he will let us off? No, of course not, he is a judge to enforce the law. The law will hand down a sentence for every crime.

Then we're all doomed! Now finally you understand our predicament. 

That's why the Gospel is such Good News : ) Without it, we are all lost, even the best of us. God himself paid the sentence due to us, winning our war and providing the only Way out. So easy that even the most simplest of us can find it, even a child. No exams to pass so even the least talented can attain it. That is why it is the wisdom of God.

It is rare for me to talk about the Law. I don't want to point the gun at anyone, that will only start another war. I have enough faults of my own. But I do feel that people don't understand the war they are in and are not facing up to the Truth that one day, not too far off, they will die and have to face God as Judge. And without having placed their faith in Jesus, they are lost forever :' (

They say there are no atheists in foxholes. Both criminals cried out to God to save them, one in anger, one in humility. For one, it was his belief in the goodness of God that saved him. So which of the 2 criminals do you identify with?


"For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son so that anyone who believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."
 John 3:16

Love and Marriage

Print Friendly and PDF My friend just got married at a fabulous location in Bordeaux, France. I wished I could have been there but he sent me some photos and I can tell you it was absolutely beautiful. They will have a lot of great memories for the rest of their lives : )



Not that a beautiful wedding guarantees a successful marriage. When asked prior to his marriage if he was "in love" with his fiancé Lady Diana, Prince Charles famously answered with the caveat "whatever in love means"... Ding Ding Ding !!!

In our culture, people want to marry someone they love who loves them at least as much. Of course around the world there are many different and controversial views on marriage and I won't go there today!

Rate yourself on the love and marriage scale 1 to 10;
  1. Sorry I don't know what love is, I think I must be royal ; ) 
  2. No thanks, there's no such thing as the "One", I'll keep my options open! 
  3. Yes we're gonna make it legal some day but who really needs the piece of paper? 
  4. What's love got to do with it? I've just ordered a Russian bride, thanks Google : ) 
  5. Why not? I'll try anything once ; ) Let's go to the church NOW, Viva Las Vegas! 
  6. The chance of finding the "One" is minuscule. That's why an arranged marriage by the people who love you most is best... It had to be you : ) 
  7. I'd like to know who's making this stuff up because it's like I already knew you and I always will : ) 
  8. The world changed the day we met. Our love is eternal, I'm a Montague and you're a Capulet! 
  9. "Search your heart, search your soul and when you find me there you'll search no more! You know it's true, everything I do, I do it for you
  10. I promise you today, tomorrow and forever! "I, ___, take you, ___, to be my husband/wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honour you all the days of my life."
It's a good thing to know what you are looking for in another person. If you want to know if you have found true love, you will find 1 Corinthians 13 a useful checklist. It's even better if you can replace the word "Love" in this passage with your own name!

"Love is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud, never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable or touchy. It does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do it wrong. It is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever truth wins out. If you love someone, you will be loyal to him no matter what the cost. You will always believe in him, always expect the best of him, and always stand your ground in defending him." 
1 Corinthians 13:4-7

The truth is none of us achieve 100% of the high standard of 1 Corinthians 13! But I'm sure every prospective wife is looking for more than a mere pass mark from her future husband : )

There's something more that the Bible teaches about marriage that people today are missing out on by not making the connection.

Not only did God in his love create woman for man, perfectly suited to all his needs and take an oath to keep them together (which he cannot lie). But also, in doing so he painted a picture for all time to show how much Christ loves the Church and how the Church loves him back like a bride filled with joy at her wedding.

So when you go to a wedding, and you feel all the love and hope and faith that two people place in each other, you should realise that is how God feels about YOU and will commit to you forever if only you will accept his marriage proposal! How about it?

There are three things that remain—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love. 
1 Corinthians 13:13